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Is Your Girlfriend Crazy? Signs That You Are Dating a Crazy Girl (Part 4)

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We have all been in relationships where we question the sanity of the people we are dating. But how do you know if your girlfriend is crazy?

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Last, but certainly not least.  This is the end of our series on trying to figure out if your girlfriend is crazy.  I hope this has helped you in some way.

40. She’s suddenly best friends with everyone you know.

This is her manipulating you. What she’s really doing is making it hard for you to get rid of her. Your friends won’t see her crazy side like you do, and soon, you’ll have no one to go to with your relationship problems.

41. She expects everything but gives nothing.

Being selfish can kill a relationship.  It’s tough to balance your needs and wants for those of your partners.  It takes a strong person to be able to make sacrifices, as they’re not easy.  So if she expects you to do everything, and she’s doing nothing – she’s crazy.

42. She’s dated me before.

We all tend to have “types” of people that we date.  It might be a physical characteristic or it could be something else.  If you’re finding that you’re always dating crazy people, you might want to sit down and have a conversation with yourself.  No, that’s not crazy.  Figure out why you’re attracted to this type of person and figure out what you can do to seek out different types of relationships.  It’s not easy, but if you don’t, you’ll be dating crazies for the rest of your life.  And eventually marrying one.

43. She’s always the victim.

Even when she’s the one who did something blatantly wrong, she turns it around on you and suddenly, you’re on defense. How did that even happen?

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44. She goes through your stuff.

If she just likes wearing one of your favorite shirts when you’re not around, that’s actually pretty cool. But if you can tell someone’s been unrolling all your socks and your desk drawers have been rummaged through… that’s not cool.  When this doesn’t make you a crazy girlfriend is if you suspect your boyfriend of cheating.  I have been in that situation, and the only way I found out was by going through his stuff.  Did it make me crazy?  Maybe.  But I can handle that over the betrayal any day.  Going through your stuff, just because, is crazy.  But I think that this isn’t always a sign that there’s something wrong with the girl.  There might be something bigger going on in the relationship.

45. She’s delusional.

On your first few dates, she had some amazing stories. Too bad you’re finding out none of them are true.  This isn’t just for girls though.  Guys can tell some pretty crazy stories as well.  Regardless of gender, it means they’re crazy.

46. She tells you EVERYTHING about her exes.

She wants you to know how you measure up, even if the information she’s giving you isn’t true, and even if you don’t want to know it.  This is a sign that she’s hung up on her exes, and crazy. But it’s also hurtful.  What guy wants to be measured by someone else?  Or girl for that matter.  I don’t want to know how my boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend treated him.  Unless it’s pertinent to our relationship.   But otherwise, keep it to yourself.

47. She wants to know EVERYTHING about your exes.

She’s just looking to start a fight.  And some how it will be about her.  Yes, you should tell your girlfriend about your ex, but again, only if it’s pertinent to your current relationship.  You don’t need to get into all the gorry details.  If she presses you, she’s insecure and also crazy.

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48. Cats.

One or two is fine. Three is grounds for suspicion. Any more than that and (unless she’s running a rescue operation out of her apartment) you’d best get to stepping. “Crazy Cat Lady” is a stereotype for a reason.  I dated a guy who had a cat.  One of the first things he said to me on our first date was “do you like cats?”  Honestly, I’m not a cat fan.  I don’t have pets and I really am not an animal person.  I think I lied and said “yes”.  I didn’t necessarily want that to be the deal breaker, but it did make me wonder if he was crazy.  He then said, “good, because I want you to be comfortable at my place”.  Is that sweet or crazy?  I still don’t have an opinion on that.  Needless to say that we didn’t work out.  Not because he’s crazy, but because he was young and immature.

49. She talks about how much she hates drama.

If she’s drama-free, then she’s a keeper for sure. But if it seems to follow her around, odds are she’s the cause of it.  I can’t even remember the last time my life was dramatic.  Maybe this is my redeeming crazy quality?

50.You start to wonder if you’re the crazy one.

When you start to question your own sanity, there’s a good chance that you’re in a relationship with a crazy person.  Craziness is contagious.  The longer you’re exposed, the greater the chance of catching it.

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