That guy or gal you see on the television or movies are not real nor are the just around the corner. That hot tennis player and that basketball star are not even in the same circles as you. So chances are they are not going to meet you. So dating them is not an option. The word “sexy” has become tied into what we see in media. For me personally “sexy” is a woman that is smart (book smart and common sense), has nice lips, eyes and C+ chest. (I am a guy after all) That is my simple formula for a “sexy” chick. I am sure you women out there have your own formulas for a hot guy.
The point is make it what you want not what media wants you to want. A geek is often underrated in our society but they are the most loyal caring people in the world. Natalie Portman is fluent in five languages with a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Harvard.. Sounds like a geek to me. Dating a geek does not mean that chick in thick glasses and an inhaler. It just means look past the superficial. Here are my reasons why:
[I] U+Me = Us
Geeks love to figure things out and know what is important. They focus all the time. Not just focus on work, games or tech but on you. They realize that you are more important then the other stuff. They also tend not to be brook. Why? See first first line. They figure things out.
[II] Clark Kent’s ego
Most geeks are not hoes. They did not learned about sex by sleeping with every pretty face. They read books about how to please their partner. Then they took it a step further and asked question of their partner. They may look like and act like a geek but when it comes to you, their your personal freak in the bed.
[III] It just works
When you date a geek you never have to worry about your tech not working. Your computer running slow? They will fix that. Your Season pass not set up right on Tivo? They will get right on it. If it is something that takes power, you will never have to worry about it not working right if you date a geek. Be warned though, they do often try to push you tech past its limits by Rooting, jailbreaking or just plain hacking it.
[IV] And then? No then..
That is the great thing about dating a geek. There is never a “and then” moment. There is never a “what had happen was” moment. They are to the point and most importantly, honest about events that happen in their lives.
When you date a geek it sometimes is easy to forget that they are a geek. That is a good thing because at the end of the day they are just people. Stop using labels and enjoy their company.