What you wanted was a booty call. What you’re headed to is a relationship. Casual never stays that way for long. Feelings like to sneak up and sucker punch you worse than Mayweather. Maintaining an ongoing booty call takes hard work and discipline. Now if you are fine with that then read this post as great signs to look for. If on the other hand that is the last thing you want read this post as clear warning signs to look for before someone gets hurt.

Here are 21 signs to look out for:

  1. Your friends not only know his/her name, but they ask about him/her.
  2. You text them “What R U Doing?” and you actually just mean “What are you doing?”
  3. They text you before 9 p.m.
  4. They ask how your day was and actually seem to care.
  5. You know anything at all about what happened in their life between hookups.
  6. They call you. On the phone. Before 10pm
  7. You have met any member of their family.
  8. They post something to your Facebook wall and you don’t panic or delete it before anyone sees.
  9. You allow yourself to be photographed with them.
  10. They spend the night and just sleep.
  11. The two of you have had more than one date.
  12. You think about kissing them outside the bedroom.
  13. They know your first middle last and all nicknames.
  14. You care if you don’t hear from them for more than one day.
  15. You can think about them without getting just aroused.
  16. They text you “Thinking of you,” there’s not a dirty picture attached and you’re not upset.
  17. They invite you out with their friends.
  18. You’ve left some article of clothing at their house and it comforts you.
  19. They loaned you a anything. (condoms or PlanB are not a loans)
  20. They accidentally call you “baby” or gave you a nickname.
  21. Thinking about them makes you smile. Really smile not that I’m going to get some smile.

By Rubens Saintel

Proud father, #Haitian, photographer, consultant, writer & entrepreneur. I love video games, movies, plays, technology (surprise), beta testing apps and all things sci-fi. SaintelDaily.com |AppleWatch101.com | NBA101.com